Online Safety Tips

No Money Moves, Please

We're all about emotional investment, not financial ones. If someone says they're in an “emergency” and need you to wire money — run, don't walk. Scammers can be smooth talkers, but your bank balance deserves better.

Keep Personal Info Personal

Your Social Security number, your work location, your mum's secret biryani recipe — keep it private. And if you've got kids, don't go oversharing. First dates don't need to know where little Zayd goes to school.

Love Across Borders? Tread Lightly.

Although we make every effort to verify our users, on the occassion there might me and odd slippery fish. Be wary of long-distance "connections" that come with big declarations and tragic backstories. If they won't call, video chat, or meet in person, something's probably fishy — and it's not the Friday fish fry.

See Something Off? Report It!

We're all about good vibes only. So if you come across:

Information We Collect Automatically

When you visit our website, we may automatically gather data such as:

• Someone begging for money or donations
• Anyone under 18 (this is an adults-only zone!)
• Harassment or inappropriate messages
• Pushy people trying to sell you something Hit that report button like it's the snooze button on Fajr.

Meeting In Real Life

Slow and Steady

Just because your WhatsApp chats hit 10/10 doesn't mean you have to rush to nikah. Take your time. Ask questions. Schedule a call or video chat before the big in-person meet-up.

Public Places Only, Please

First few hangouts? Think coffee shops, halal eateries, or scenic public parks — not your living room. If they try to push for something private, push back.

Keep Someone in the Loop

Let a friend or sibling know where you're going and who you're meeting. Bonus points if you take your wali or guardian with you.

Bring Your Own Ride

Always have control over your transport. Whether it's your own car, Uber, or a family member picking you up after Maghrib — just make sure you can leave when you want.

Know Your Limits

If you're someone who avoids haram environments or anything else, stick to your boundaries. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything outside your comfort zone — that includes ordering a second dessert you don't want. (Okay, maybe that one's negotiable.)

Watch Your Stuff

Keep your drink and belongings close. No one needs their phone, purse, or dignity going missing mid-date.

Feeling Off? Make Your Exit

It's totally okay to cut a date short if something feels meh or worse, unsafe. Your safety > social awkwardness. Trust your gut — it's smarter than it gets credit for.

Need Support?

Even if you follow every rule in the book, things can still go sideways. If something happens, it is never your fault. You are not alone. Reach out to the following:

• Samaritans Confidential emotional support — call 116123
• Mind Infoline: 03001233393 (Mon–Fri 9am–6pm); Support line: 03001021234
• Anxiety UK Helpline: 03444775774 (Mon–Fri 9:30am–5:30pm); text: 07537416905

If you're in immediate danger, please call 999 or your local emergency number.

Final Thoughts

Meeting someone through a matchmaking can be the start of something beautiful — but only if you feel safe, respected, and heard every step of the way. Trust your instincts, set your boundaries, and don't be afraid to raise a red flag. Your heart is valuable — guard it like your Netflix password.

Contact

If you have any concerns about this, please contact us at:enquiry@thenikahproject.com.